一年来我什么都没买
There's a reason it's called retail therapy - but does it really make us happy? Cait Flanders, the author of "The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life Is Worth More Than Anything You Can Buy in a Store," decided to implement a year-long shopping ban and give away her belongings after she realized buying new things wasn't actually making her feel better. Flanders told The Independent she decided to make the change in her life when she noticed she had 54 books in her home that she hadn't yet read. The books, as with most of the belongings she gave away, were impulse purchases - or aspirational purchases. "I would immediately go on a website and buy a book and I wouldn't ask myself when I would actually read it," Flanders told us. But once she started to go through what she had, she realized many of the purchases didn't reflect who she actually was. "A little more than halfway through I realized I held on to stuff that I had bought for an aspirational self." "Classical novels, like I would be an interesting person if I read those books. Or a camera thinking I would like to be the kind of person that takes better pictures," she said. After realising this, and sorting her belongings by what she had bought for "the person I am right now or the person I want to become," Flanders "got rid of the stuff the real me didn't actually want." This happened to be 70 percent of her belongings. Flanders also gave up frivolous shopping - banning purchases of everything except groceries, toiletries, gifts, and experiences. And while she was able to successfully endure a year without shopping, it wasn't easy to change her habits. Flanders said: "It was six months into it and I was still thinking about buying things. "After six months it got easier. After six months I was like 'okay, I can actually do this for an entire year,'" she recalled, but said she realized: "You can't just break a habit in 21 days or 66 days." |